PEOPLE & DATING
“What screams ‘I am undateable’?”
Let me share with you my thoughts.
They are undateable if…
1.They’re extremely negative — Constantly complaining, criticizing, or being pessimistic makes them seem like a downer to be around, and makes others hesitant to date them.
2. They’re arrogant — If they constantly talk about how great they are or belittle others, it’s a major turn-off.
3. They can’t communicate or listen — Good communication is crucial in any relationship, so if they can’t express themselves clearly or listen to others, it can make dating them difficult.
4. They lack confidence — While arrogance is a turn-off, so is extreme shyness or insecurity. If they lack confidence in themselves or their abilities, it’s difficult to form a connection with them.
5. They have poor hygiene or grooming — This may seem superficial, but taking care of oneself is important in attracting potential partners.
6.They’re too clingy or needy — While it’s crucial to show interest in someone, being overly clingy or needy can make them seem desperate or suffocating.
7. They don’t compromise — Relationships require give-and-take, so if they can’t compromise or always insists on having their way, it’s an instant NO.
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