ADVICE
“What should you do if your ex girlfriend calls you and wants to talk?”
It depends on where you are in the process of moving on and how mature your ex is.
If you’re still in the early post-breakup stage and your ex has a toxic attitude, it’s better to stay away from them.
Talking to them might only disrupt your healing. It won’t be a risk worth taking, especially if you’ve made plenty of effort to move on and start a new life.
On the other hand, if you’ve substantially healed from your breakup and your ex is mature enough to respect your boundaries, there’s no problem having a brief chat.
However, first, ask them about their intentions for talking to you. If it’s for forgiveness or closure, it’s okay to speak with them.
As long as you know where you stand and respect each other, you won’t have any problem conversing with your ex.
