ADVICE

Is it normal to lose feelings sometimes in a relationship?”

Miss Matchmaker AFA - Thailand
1 min readOct 5, 2023
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Yes, definitely. Feelings, both positive and negative, come and go. You see that in one day alone, you have several emotions of different intensities. The same goes for a relationship. Sometimes it’s blissful and perfect but other days it’s sad and frustrating.

If you feel you’ve lost the romantic feelings in a relationship, try to give it several days or weeks and see if there will be changes. Or else, try to ponder why you’ve lost your feelings. Is it because of something that happened? A mistake your partner made? Dissatisfaction with the quality of the relationship? Or perhaps an event in your personal life that has affected it?

In any case, a relationship is built on mutual commitment, not just feelings. Go beyond the emotions and you will understand more what is going on in your relationship.

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