ADVICE
“How do you deal with someone who constantly breaks up with you but keeps coming back for more?”
A situation like this can be exasperating. If someone is back and forth with a relationship, they may be confused with themselves or are unwilling to decisively commit for some reason.
Whatever the cause for such behavior, you can take control of the situation by being firm in your decision. Though the other person may constantly be indecisive, if you stick with your own decision independent of theirs, you will be able to deal with the situation well.
A relationship is a two-way street. They can only come back and break up with you if you allow them.
Ask yourself if you really want to continue this way or if you want to finally end it. Even if they disagree or not, you can be certain with your decision and what you want.
It may be difficult to stay firm while the other person is willy-nilly. But if you want things to be clear and peaceful on your part, stay firm on your decision.
Other people’s indecisiveness will not cause great distractions or worry you because you know you decided for yourself and why you are sticking with it.
You may also want to keep your distance from this person if the situation demands it or if it becomes worse.
In any case, a person’s constant change in decision may be a sign of their immaturity or unreadiness for pursuing a serious relationship.
