A Gentleman’s Guide to Dating a Bangkok Woman

Miss Matchmaker AFA - Thailand
4 min readOct 3, 2022

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A city nestled in the “Land of Smiles,” Bangkok, Thailand is not only a tourist attraction for its picturesque views and rich historical background but also for its amazing people. This is why there is no question how people, especially men, from far and wide visit this beautiful destination to meet and build relationships, which often leads to romantic connections.

Men from all over the world can testify how Bangkok women are the women to date. You would fall in love with them not only for their olive-colored skin, piercing eyes, and doll-like figures, but you’d also be hooked on their personality and how they handle relationships.

Bangkok women are known to have positive outlooks on dating which makes dating them a real treasure for a man. Still, if you are a gentleman from a foreign country, dating someone from a different cultural background might seem like a lot of work and could have a lot of peculiarities in the long run. It is no walk in the park. To help you, here is a gentleman’s guide to winning the heart of a Bangkok woman.

Honor her roots

Even though it may seem like Bangkok is the most modernized city in Thailand, people are still highly cultural and traditional. Most of their beliefs also revolve around their religious views. Although it is unlikely for them to force you into it, it is a great deal for a woman from Bangkok if you show and give respect to what she believes in.

Cultural diversity in dating could be intimidating at first but it helps with promoting open-mindedness and keeping the relationship a lot more interesting for both of you.

Respect her family

Like most Asian cultures, family is everything for a Thai woman. You need to understand that this value has been honed throughout their history and culture.

While it is true that women from Bangkok are slowly adapting to become more liberal and independent, this certain trait is still very evident in their upbringing and how they handle various situations.

Expect that they will always put their family above you but always bear in mind that this also reflects how respectful, kind, and obedient a Bangkok woman is.

Pay for dates

While modern feminism and dating cultures would argue about different perspectives on who should pay for dates, I will make your life easier by saying that Thai women would always expect you to take care of the bill when you’re going out.

Bangkok women are strong independent women who can stand on their own and pay their bills. However, they like to be spoiled and be maintained by the man they’re dating. A Bangkok woman likes to know that you are capable of taking care of her by being generous to her.

Expect and learn to overcome language barriers

Going to Thailand, you should already be aware that most Thai people are non-English speakers. Communication is key in most relationships; that is much more emphasized when you are building one. When dating a girl from Thailand, you should expect that most of your time together will be dominated by non-verbal cues.

“Actions speak louder than words’’ is a quote that goes a long way for dating a Thai woman, not just because of the language difference but because they are the type of woman that is more confident in showing what she feels through gestures, acts of service, and body language.

Enjoy your time together and give her your full attention

Women, in general, like to be told they are beautiful. However, go out of your way to show and prove this to your Thai woman. Thai women take serious steps in maintaining themselves to look and feel good and they want their efforts to be recognized.

Make sure you express how much you adore her. That being said, a Thai woman can also easily distinguish signs that you may lack interest in and would then turn into jealousy. However, this is not something to be afraid of as you should also expect that the attention you give to her will be given back to you tenfold.

Of course, experiences in dating a Bangkok woman will vary from man to man. However, there will always be one thing in common: spending time with a Bangkok woman is an experience of a lifetime. Keeping in mind the tips given above, it is a guarantee that your dating life with a Bangkok woman would be a breeze.

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